Tuesday, November 3, 2009


Tuesday,

Thank you for your faithfulness in checking for updates. We haven’t been as faithful providing updates since Bonnie was discharged last Wednesday, so this is long overdue.

After being discharged on Wednesday evening, we changed rooms within “Guest Housing” right on the Detroit Medical Center campus where I (Steve) had been staying since October 2nd. We moved from a typical “hotel” style room to a one bedroom suite, which was more like a college dorm. Using the word “suite” does not necessarily mean “sweet”, but it was adjacent to the Karmanos outpatient clinic so we can't complain too much.

On Thursday we had a day off from the clinic, so we had time to drive up to Sterling Heights to sign an open-ended lease on the apartment where we now reside. We also took time to grocery shop to stock the shelves with all the necessities needed. I did the shopping while Bonnie rested in the car.

Bonnie has been instructed to avoid crowed public places for the next several months. She basically has an immune system of an infant that is 25 days old, so she is required to wear a protective mask every time we go out the door. Even alone in the fresh air she has to wear a mask as the wind can stir up various molds and pollens that can easily cause infection.

Thursday night we had a nurse visit our little “suite” to give us instructions on how to self administer an “in-home” daily IV bag of Magnesium mixed with Sodium Chloride that runs for three hours. Combining the IV instructions along with the class/instructions on how to change Bonnie’s central line dressing as well as keeping all her medications straight is quite the challenge. She has three specific meds that are taken at 7:00 a.m., a different one at 8:00 a.m., another kind at 10:00 (actually it is 10 capsules currently, which can increase/decrease depending on her twice weekly blood lab levels), one med at 2:00 p.m., one at 6:00 p.m., and three at 10:00 (one of three being the 10 capsule med again). Including the IV bag of Magnesium from 6:00 p.m. to 9:00 p.m., as well as all the optional meds for pain and nausea, a degree in Pharmacy is not too far in the distant future.

On Friday, Bonnie had her first visit to the clinic as an outpatient. We were there for six hours or so, as in part, she needed a four hour IV infusion of a special immune booster which is determined by blood labs. Whatever the doctors look for in the “immune” area of the blood labs was lower than they would like to see, thus the booster.

On Friday Bonnie also took a little turn for the worse as it relates to some delayed chemo side effects. The doctors are leaning more towards chemo effects and not Graft v Host Disease, which normally starts showing up after 30 days post transplant (which is this coming Sunday). The side effects are puffy swollen eyes and lips as well as red blotches on her face. This she can deal with. The one thing that has become problematic is the bottom of her feet, which limits her walking because it is so painful. The chemo more or less burned the bottom of her feet, primarily thus far her heels, but it is now spreading to the underside of her toes. Imagine a giant water blister encompassing the entire underside of your foot beneath several layers of skin. The pain is quite unbearable for Bonnie and the pain meds barely touch it.

On Saturday we moved out of the “suite” and into a very well maintained, fully furnished, two bedroom apartment which is only twenty minutes away (non-rush hour) from Karmanos. If we have to be away from our "home" home, we couldn't ask to be in a better spot and are thankful for the friends who have made this available to us as long or as short as we need it.

The foot problem has temporarily ended Bonnie’s walking which is an important aspect of her recovery from the bone marrow transplant. Please pray that her feet will heal and return to normal so she can get out and exercise to continue the progress she has made thus far in the recovery stage of this journey. We did get a wheel chair so she can get outside of the four walls for a change of scenery.

We have had a number of people ask how I (Steve) am doing, so here is an update. I feel great, have a lot of energy to attend to Bonnie’s needs, my hair is growing back and the numbness in my fingers and toes seems to be less. In summary, I feel as close to normal as I have in a long time. Thank you for your continued prayers and interest. We will continue to update you as we have new information.

God bless you all.

Steve & Bonnie

5 comments:

  1. I will definitely be specifically praying for your feet to heal, Mrs. Opper... that does not sound fun. :(
    Love
    Stephanie

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  2. Thanks so much for keeping us in touch with what's going on with all of you. We continue to pray for you, and love you. Thanks, too, for posting the picture! It's beautiful!!

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  3. Steve and Bonnie,
    Sounds like you're in a good place physically -- at the Sterling Heights apartment -- to recover and heal for this part of the transplant journey. A few setbacks will not be obstacles to your complete recovery, Bonnie. Gil is doing well and will probably be able to drop back to one appointment in the clinic per week starting next week. Of course, a new fever or rash could change everything in an instant -- as you know. We are expecting Mark and his wife, Kim, to drive to our house today from the DMC Guest Housing for lunch and a few hours of visitation. He and Gil will sit in the living room, appreciate the good view outside and have a conversation while they each have their magnesium infusing! What a life?! I think of the two of you every single day since I feel close to you both and you were there with us through the good, the bad and the ugly. Feel better soon!
    Gil and Karen

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  4. Dear Bonnie, I'm trying hard to make time to catch your updates, though I wish I could figure out how to automate this, so I don't forget. We will be praying specifically that 1) you do not get exposed to anything that could harm your recovery and 2) that your feet heal. It is good to continue to hear that spirits tend to be on the high side, and just pray now that God will strengthen and heal your body.
    Steve, God seems to have you in a very special place and we'll be praying for continued strengthening and the eventual demise of any negative symptoms from your chemo.
    Blessings, The Bacons

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  5. We love you Bonnie and Steve -- thanks for keeping us updated with these posts -- we love the beautiful picture -- I hope Mom is giving you those hugs for me that I'm sending with her .... :) Praying, praying, praying ....

    "Our soul waiteth for the LORD: he is our help and our shield. For our heart shall rejoice in Him, because we have trusted in His holy name. Let thy mercy, O LORD, be upon us, according as we hope in thee." Psalm 33: 20-22

    All Our Love,

    Ed, Cathy and kids

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